Tuesday 10 December 2013

How do you react to rejection?

We had two very strong candidates rejected for a role this week.  Myself and my colleagues were left baffled that neither went forward in the selection process but knowing the client well, were sure that strong and reasonable consideration would have been given.  Our only conclusion was that our candidates were good, but beaten this time by more suitable candidates.

These are the worst moments in recruitment, closing down candidates you believe in and like.  No-one wants to hear bad news, but of course, how we react to this news is key.

You have to let the feedback sink in, digest what you hear, take it as it is meant - constructive.

As recruiters, when we give feedback we need to be clear how we deliver it.  We mustn't highlight the reason given by the client for not progressing, and develop that point into an issue.  If a candidate has been pipped at the post let them know, be sure and assuring, tell candidates that when recruitment works well, you sadly have to reject great candidates, and accept on occasion that more suitable candidates are selected.

A reason for rejection isn't always about weakness, but often about simply lesser strengths in relevant areas.

Candidates: listen to the feedback, don't just close down when you hear it's bad news, it isn't personal  and remember, when you are the one getting the good news, several other strong candidates will be feeling how you feel now.

The company that you were dead set on joining shouldn't lose any attraction simply because they said 'not this time'.  Perhaps next time will be the right time; don't burn bridges and don't close any doors.

Ask your recruiter to pass on your thanks and appreciation at being considered, ask them to specifically contact the client on your behalf and ask to be kept in mind for future opportunities. 

One day, you'll be grateful you did!